Guest Columnist
Rebecca Packwood
Poll of Single California Women Finds Tech Entrepreneurs Are the Most Desired in the State
While many men struggle to secure even a single match on dating apps, others effortlessly attract hundreds of connections. This phenomenon begs the question: is this success a matter of pure luck, or is there more at play beyond just physical appearances and a well written (albeit ChatGPT-aided) bio? To explorethis, Texas Divorce Laws conducted a survey of 3,000 women, aiming to discover the most desirable bachelors across the U.S.
The survey revealed that the most universally attractive career for a dating profile is that of a firefighter. There’s just something about a uniform, a little danger, and a whole lot of bravery that sets hearts ablaze. However, beyond this common preference, there were significant variations across the states.
In California, it’s no surprise that women are drawn to veterinarians. Despite the mixed reputation of Silicon Valley, California women still find themselves drawn to tech entrepreneurs.' The dream of innovation, the thrill of the next big startup, and the promise of a future built on cutting-edge technology keep these men in high demand in the Golden State.
Other states' notable preferences included:
New York - the city that never sleeps and the heartbeat of American finance, it’s no surprise that hedge fund managers top the list of most desirable professions. In a city where power suits and Wall Street dominate, financial success is seen as the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Florida, presumably influenced by Miami respondents, showed a distinct preference for real estate developers. The allure of high-rise condos, beachfront properties, and the promise of a luxurious lifestyle make real estate moguls a hot commodity in the Sunshine State.
New Jersey’s preference for gym owners reflects a state with a strong emphasis on fitness and personal care. Maybe it’s the muscles, maybe it’s the commitment to health—or maybe they just want someone to spot them during their next workout. Either way, these Garden State gals are all about fitness.
And Alabama, with its rich literary history, saw women gravitating towards authors. It makes perfect sense for a state that has produced some of the country’s most esteemed writers - there’s an appreciation for creativity, storytelling, and intellectual depth in the Heart of Dixie.
So, what exactly are California women looking for in their dream bachelor, aside from careers? According to the survey, the answer is pretty clear: a sense of humor is king! With nearly half of the respondents (49%) listing it as the most attractive trait, it seems like laughter truly is the best medicine—and perhaps the best way to secure a second date.
Next up, a solid 41% of women said they’d be most likely to swipe right on a family-oriented gentleman. Looks like being a great dad-to-be or someone who will always be able to pay child support (if things don’t work out) is more attractive than ever.
Creativity also got some love, with 23% of the votes going to those artistic and imaginative types. Whether you’re painting landscapes or composing songs, there’s someone out there who’ll appreciate your zest for life.
Intelligence and compassion weren’t far behind in the desirability stakes. Nearly 16% of women ranked smarts as their top trait, and close to 20% opted for a kind heart. So, whether you’re acing trivia night or volunteering at the local animal shelter, you’re in with a chance.
Finally, if you’re more of an adventurous traveler, you’ve still got an audience - 15% of the votes went to those who are always up for scaling mountains or exploring the unknown.
"It's fascinating to see how diverse the preferences are across the country. While careers like firefighters and tech entrepreneurs may grab the spotlight, it's clear that humor, compassion, and family values are equally, if not more, important to many. This survey highlights that it's not just about what you do, but who you are that makes a lasting impression," says Shaun Connell, Founder of Texas Divorce Laws.